Over time and kids

I have been working so much overtime, i'm so tired but i'm happy to be able to do this for my kids so they have great christmas, Being a full time mama wife and work is hard work. but i'm strong and can do this. I'm so happy to be doing this for my kids, My husband and I both have deciced to go back to school so that when the kids get old they also will want to be hard works and go to school to better thier lives. I dont really care what i become i love my job i have know but i just want them to see us working hard and having a good education. i just want my kids to grow up to be great adults.
Ashley Benson

Oct. 4

I got the best news the other day our roommate is going back to cali, I'm soo happy about that. But i then got some bummer news, My sister Andrea is losing her house so i have to know let her live with us for a few months. Which kinda sucks but you got to do what you got to do right.

I cant believe its been a hole week since i have wrote on my blog. I have been really busy between work and family that i dont really have to much time for me. So i'm taking 5 mintues to write on this blog so i feel better. Today i went to chruch got to go back to work. So next week for two weeks i'm doing lots of overtime since i can and we need to money for christmas.

My baby is getting so big he is now 4 months old. He has his doctors appt. on weds. cant wait to see how big he is getting. I'm soo happy to be a mommy and wifey. For once in my life i feel so happy to be here. Its been on of those good weeks just really tried since i get up at 6am dont get to bed until 11 or so with working. Its kinda hard on me. But its what needs to happen to make a good family for your self.

I love the fact that i'm learning to tell my family no know. which makes them mad but why should i run myself down to the ground for them. I have my other family i need to take care of just because they dont want to be reasonable like they should then why do i need to pick up the pieces. so here i am my sister yesterday wanted a ride to get her hair done and i told her "no" that i was spending my old day of for a week with my family. i think she got up set but i dont really care anymore if she gets mad at me. i can only be and do so much for them i have a husband and kids to take care of.

Love always,

Ashley Benson

Football Sunday

So here i am on football sunday, Got the house clean laundry all done. Making ribs and potoaoes. Yummy. And looking at cook books so i can make lots of yummy foods for my family. And getting ready for the big day of shopping next week.


I swear my marriage just keeps getting better and better everyday. You know how people say that it gets harder and rougher well it just keeps getting easier. Off i go to do some napping.

p.s. my husband team is play go 49ers
Ashley Benson

Saturday Work

Well today I have been cleaning the house, and hanging with the family. I got a litte nap. Witch was nice while it lasted. Being a full time mom and also working is one of the hardestt jobs there is. I always wondered what it would be like to be a wife and mom. Now i know. It's the best thing ever. I just dont want to feel like a maid which sometime i feel. It's not even by my husband its by our roommate. i feel like he thinks it just cause i'm i women that i need to clean up after him. And it is not what so ever. ok so i dont want to talk about him it just pisses me off.

But i do have one of the best husbands ever. The other day while i was at home he sent me so many little things like a little video about how much he loves me and then a little recoding of his voicing saying again how happy i make him. I'm so happy thats it him that i can spend the rest of my life with. He is the best man alive. i truly believe that.

Ashley Benson

Some Quite

So sometime family is so hard to deal with. I let my sister come stay with me because her boyfriend was beating her. So after two weeks and way to much drama in our lives i decide it was time for my sister to go back home because she was putting a wedge between my husband. so when i went to talk to her she tollay played the victum like i was the worst person ever. Well her ex boyfriend is in cali she is safe and now she is mad at me. I could just not take it anymore.

She was really getting upset and upsetting me. and i didnt want to come home to my own home. This is my family that i have built. And while my husband and i talk about everything. she was upset about that also. so my husband and i decided that its just that misery loves company and she cant stand seeing me happy. the only time she "cares" about anyone is if she dont have a man in her life. I tollay had to tell her she need to see her son. I dont understand why both my sisters choose men over there kids.

I would never do such a thing. I told my husband that i will stand next to my kids no matter what. if he didnt like it theres the door. well my complaning faset is over. now i will write more this weekend. have a good friday everyone.


Ashley Benson

Work going good

I'm so happy at my new job. Its just that me and cary really dont get to see each other much. I mean for like 30 mintues in the morning and then 30 min for lunch and then he is in bed sleeping by the time i get home from work. but i mean on fridays and saturdays we will see each other more. It's said but we gots to do what we got to provide for our family. When we get old and the kids are all growed up and we are old and wringly LOL we will be able to spend tons of time together. Thats th good parts about being married that we will be able to make up for lost time.

And i'm also trying to find a perschool for elizabeth that i can afford. She wants to go to school so bad. We have been work so hard to be able to put her in this really good school but we cant it is simply to much. So we have to try to find a cheaper one with out going cheap if you know what i mean.

Mackenzie can go to school because she has some learning areas that Elizabeth is just simply to smart for the state to help so it's up to mom and dad. Or just wait until Kindergarened. We just need to keep praying about it and God will provied he always dose.

I'm so happy with my life, i'm been going great. As happy as can be. With my little family that i have now.

Ashley Benson

Intent To Kill

Intent To Kill is one of the best books i have read in a long while. I kept me guessing all though the book, I would suggest this book to everyone that wants to have a really good read. I'm thinking its one of the best books that anyone could think about it reading in awhile. Well here is a good book to read if you have nothing better to do then read.








Ashley Benson